Motherhood is a profound and extraordinary responsibility, one as ancient as humanity itself. The journey to becoming a mother is life-altering—sometimes unexpected, other times the culmination of years of hope and waiting. Regardless of how it happens, there’s one undeniable truth: it is always a blessing.
For most of us, the timing of parenthood is unpredictable. While we can make plans and take steps to achieve it, life is, and will always be, full of surprises.
Some women experience motherhood early, bringing new life into the world during their teenage years. Others welcome children later in life. Sadly, some face challenges that prevent them from having children of their own.
Then there are women like Maria Carmen del Bousada from Cadiz, Spain, who face criticism and even societal judgment for their choices regarding when or how to have children.
In 2006, Maria made headlines when she revealed that she was pregnant with twins—at the age of 66.
Reports suggest that Maria, a retired store worker, sold her home to afford IVF treatment despite her age. To secure the procedure, she reportedly lied to doctors at a California fertility clinic, claiming she was 55.
Maria firmly believed that every woman should have the freedom to decide when to start a family, free from societal expectations or external pressures.
A Dream Realized
According to The Guardian, Maria shared, “Often circumstances put you between a rock and a hard place, and maybe things shouldn’t have been done in the way they were done, but that was the only way to achieve the thing I had always dreamed of.”
Naturally, her decision sparked mixed reactions.
Criticism came from many quarters, including her own family. Some labeled her selfish. Maria admitted she initially kept her pregnancy a secret and that her relatives thought she was joking when she finally revealed the news.
In 2006, Maria gave birth to healthy twin boys, Christian and Pau, earning the title of the world’s oldest mother at the time.
A Tragic Turn
Sadly, Maria’s time with her sons was short-lived. Six months after giving birth, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.
“They’re still babies, so I haven’t told them,” she said then. “They’re too young for these things.”
Maria’s family stepped in to care for Christian and Pau as her health declined. She passed away in 2009, leaving behind her two beloved sons after only a few precious years together.
#SabiasQue la mujer más vieja en dar a luz es Maria del Carmen Bousada (España) a los 66 años y 358 días. pic.twitter.com/zFVdlz8xLu
— Guinness World Records LatAm (@gwr_es) January 5, 2017
Maria’s brother Ricardo reflected, “I think she has done this too late in life … but now they are here. We love these beautiful boys.”
Pilar Pinto, a resident of Cadiz who knew Maria, later shared that Christian and Pau were thriving. “They are being well taken care of and are in great shape. I see them here often in town,” Pinto said.
Adding poignantly, Pinto remarked, “God didn’t let her enjoy her children very much. He should have given her more time.”
Maria del Carmen Bousada Lara is the oldest person to have given birth. She gave birth to twin boys, Christian and Pau, at the age of 66, at the Sant Pau Hospital in Barcelona, Spain, in 2006. She had received IVF treatment in the US after being denied the same in Spain. pic.twitter.com/7Blnbx9LRb
— NewsBytes (@NewsBytesApp) August 25, 2021
Maria’s Legacy
Despite the challenges and criticism, Maria stood by her decision to have children later in life. Her story is a poignant reminder of the resilience and determination of motherhood.
It’s a touching narrative that raises important questions about the right of women to choose when they become mothers. Personally, I believe every woman should have the autonomy to decide when the time is right for her.