How far are you willing to go when it comes to sharing personal aspects of your life with family members? For most, the boundaries are clear, but one woman has sparked controversy by revealing her unconventional approach to marriage and family dynamics.
Madi Brooks, a TikTok user, shared that she and her husband are in an open relationship—but not just with strangers. She allows her husband to share intimate connections with her mother and, more recently, her sister. Brooks describes this arrangement as beneficial, giving her a break whenever she’s “not in the mood.”
In a now-deleted TikTok video that has been widely shared, Brooks candidly explained:
“Me and my mum are both swingers, and it’s great. You know why? Whenever I’m not in the mood, I can just let my husband have her. Yeah, I’m that kind of wife. I let my husband have her a couple of times a week.”
Brooks went on to reveal that her younger sister has also joined their open relationship dynamic. She explained:
“You wanna know how I keep my man happy? I let him play with my little sister.”
This unusual family arrangement has left TikTok users divided. While some were baffled, struggling to classify Brooks’ relationship dynamic as swinging or polyamory, others were outright shocked.
One TikTok user commented, “That’s enough TikTok for one year, I’m out,” expressing their discomfort. Others questioned how Brooks would feel if her husband were ever “not in the mood,” given that all the other participants in the arrangement are her family members.
However, some individuals stepped forward to show support for Brooks’ lifestyle, emphasizing the importance of consent. One user remarked, “I don’t understand the fuss. If you have four consenting adults, who’s to judge? Live your own life.” Another added, “I get way too jealous to be a swinger with a family member, but you do you, boo.”
The removal of Brooks’ TikTok account following her revelations has raised questions, though it’s unclear whether the account was deleted voluntarily or due to backlash.
Interestingly, Brooks’ openness comes at a time when public attitudes toward non-monogamous relationships appear to be shifting. A YouGov poll conducted months ago revealed that nearly a quarter of Americans would consider an open relationship if given the opportunity. Specifically, 30% of husbands and 21% of wives expressed interest.
While Brooks’ family arrangement may not resonate with everyone, it has sparked broader conversations about the evolving definitions of relationships and the boundaries of personal choices in modern society.